How To Choose The Perfect Partner?

Any person has three things to offer:-

1. Body - They are very good looking and/or they are great at sex.

2. Mind - They are very intelligent, knowledgeable and talented.

3. Heart - They are great lovers. They care a lot. They are kind and emotional.

Years of observation and understanding of humans have brought me to the conclusion that no person can excel in all three departments.

For example, if someone is really good looking, is great at sex and is intelligent, you may find a lack of emotional intelligence and the ability to love someone wholeheartedly.

Someone might not be attractive enough. But, they can be really intelligent and possess the ability to reciprocate love and care with a full heart.

Someone can be not so knowledgeable and smart. But, they can be really beautiful, amazing at sex and at the same time be able to love someone fiercely.

I would humbly like to point out here that “my theory” doesn't apply to celebrities as there's no way to know them personally.

There's nothing wrong with wanting to marry someone beautiful or someone who's intelligent or someone very kind and compassionate.

Whatever your desires are, it is your personal preference and there's no rule book for the same.

What you should keep in mind while choosing a life partner is that, according to my theory, no person can excel in all the departments.

The choice is yours - what you want and what you can let go of.

If you become very clear about your preferences, there will be no compatibility issues.

Compatibility issues arise when we expect a lot from our partners, much more than their ability and capacity.

All you need to keep in mind is the individuality, ability and capacity of your partner to lead a happy married life.

PS:- If you are married, stop expecting your partner to excel at body, heart and mind. Nobody is perfect.