A Letter To My Future Wife

My Love,

Ours is definitely going to be an arranged marriage. And there are chances that we may not be able to talk till we get married.

As it will be an arranged marriage I understand your fears, confusion, insecurities and the thoughts that will be running in your mind.

But, you don't need to worry about anything. Yes, your biggest fear will be about getting physical. Trust me, I have no expectation about sex from you. Neither I am going to force you on the “First Night” as a typical village boy does. I won't even touch you without your permission. I even don't care if it takes years for you to get comfortable with me. I understand you, from this day itself.

Stop worrying about how the family members would be. I don't want to praise them. Instead, I want to give you some life advice. Treat them with love and they will treat you with love. As simple as that. But, when it comes to your self-respect, raise your voice, politely.

I don't promise you a lifestyle where you would be served your food on a golden plate. I can't. But I promise you a lifestyle full of love. You will have to work. But I will try my best so that you do not need to work very hard. I will arrange everything in a way that you don't need to work on the farms. Just deal with the household chores and leave the rest of the things to me.

From waking up early in the morning with you to having all meals together, I want that. From oiling your hair to cuddling rather than having sex, I want that. From watching you milking those buffaloes to stealing a kiss on the farm, I want that.

Come soon, dear.